TABLE OF CONTENTS
Dedication to Joel P. Henning
Foreword by Margaret J. Wheatley
Preface
Introduction: The Dangerous Book for Adults
Chapter 1: Revolutionary Conversations for Adults
Chapter 2: Relationships That Don’t Work at Work
Chapter 3: The Myth of Holding Others Accountable
Chapter 4: You Can’t Make All the Fourth Graders Happy
Chapter 5: Hostages to Disappointment
Chapter 6: Change the Conversation, Change the Culture
Chapter 7: Moving from Manipulation to Engagement
Chapter 8: Stop Courting the Cynic
Chapter 9: Cutting the Ties That Bind
Chapter 10: Declaration of Interdependence
Chapter 11: Open Season—Remove the Camouflage!
Conclusion: Starting the Revolution
A Practical Guide to Authentic Conversations
Suggestions for Getting Started
Facing a Difficult Issue
Seeking an Exception
Proposing Change
Introducing a Mandate
Renegotiating an Established Relationship
Initiating Endings
Dealing with Individual Performance
Creating Your Own Authentic Conversations
Acknowledgments
Notes